Written by Rebecca | Becster.com
I grew up in what was considered an unconventional family. I grew up with my Dad, Taid and Nain. And the dog, cannot forget the dog!
(I should point out that Taid is my grandfather and Nain is my grandmother)
Recently, and when I say recently I mean in the last couple of years, someone said to me that I’d “done well for yourself, considering”. “Considering”? I pressed this person as to what “considering” meant. In their opinion, the fact that I came from my hometown (*) and from a “broken home” meant that statistically I shouldn’t be where I am today.
* my hometown has a reputation of being a bit “rough” but for me, it’s home.
A “Broken Home”?
In the great game of statistics, I’m considered to be a child of a broken home. Parents separated blah di blah. One thing I can say with absolute certainty is that this was not a broken home. Whilst it wasn’t the usual 2.4 children scenario, it was an extremely happy home.
Looking back, I don’t recall any sadness. The only sadness came by way of a scraped knee or “popo pen”. The usual childhood worries. The love was everywhere. There was never a moment when I didn’t feel loved.
We took family holidays together. They weren’t holidays abroad. No we were a caravanning family. Summer holidays were trips to Borth near Aberystwyth or to Chester to see my cousins. Taid and the dog used to stay at home though. Taid wasn’t really the caravanning kind and after THAT incident in Crewe, the dog was banned from ever going caravanning!
(THAT incident in Crewe involved a dog, a busy zebra crossing and the need to relieve itself)
How Dare You!
So, for someone to say that I came from a broken home, it gets my back right up! How dare anyone say that my happy childhood family was broken. In my opinion a married couple with kids, whilst conventional and statistically not a broken home, can be in cases more broken than the unconventional families.
I HATE the term broken home. If there’s love and stability, then who cares what the composition of that family is?
What are your thoughts?
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